{"id":2239,"date":"2022-03-29T11:19:45","date_gmt":"2022-03-29T11:19:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/virginiagallo.com\/?p=2239"},"modified":"2022-03-29T13:55:10","modified_gmt":"2022-03-29T13:55:10","slug":"que-quieres-demostrar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/virginiagallo.com\/?p=2239","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfQu\u00e9 quieres demostrar?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Nos pasamos gran parte de nuestra vida laboral intentando demostrar algo<\/strong>: lo mucho que sabemos, nuestras dotes de liderazgo, las horas que trabajamos, la habilidad para ascender o generar ingresos\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En mi caso, he pasado muchos a\u00f1os intentando demostrar lo lista que soy. Jajaja, as\u00ed, tal cual. Estaba empe\u00f1ada en que cualquier actividad profesional que desempe\u00f1ara ten\u00eda que reflejar mi inteligencia. Y que deb\u00eda medir si una oferta laboral me conven\u00eda o no en c\u00f3mo me posicionaba intelectualmente.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deb\u00eda de haber algo terrible y fatal en no ser muy inteligente, en no parecerlo, en no reflejarlo. As\u00ed que, mi tesis doctoral becada, premiada, publicada: bien. Mi inter\u00e9s por el coaching: desastre;-)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Esa necesidad de demostrar suele confundirnos mucho en los procesos de cambio de carrera o b\u00fasqueda de empleo<\/strong>. Nos hace poner en duda nuestros verdaderos intereses, nos ciega, nos esclaviza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Es imposible demostrar lo que pretendes.<\/strong>&nbsp;Cuando yo me esforzaba con la investigaci\u00f3n jur\u00eddica, muchos conocidos lamentaban mi precariedad econ\u00f3mica. De hecho, no ve\u00edan demasiada inteligencia en invertir tantos a\u00f1os en algo tan poco rentable. La gente no escucha necesariamente lo que tratas de comunicar. Tienen sus propios valores y esquemas y te clasifican conforme a los mismos. [Por no entrar, claro, en lo in\u00fatil de la mirada ajena; pero, qu\u00e9 le vamos a hacer, somos sociales y nos importa.]&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adem\u00e1s, tras esa imagen que tratamos de dar, hay mucho miedo<\/strong>. Miedo al descontrol. A la verg\u00fcenza. A que descubran c\u00f3mo somos de verdad y no nos acepten. Miedo a no encajar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>El esfuerzo por demostrar conlleva renuncias<\/strong>. Para demostrar nuestra capacidad de trabajo, llegamos tarde a casa y renunciamos a horas con la familia. Para demostrar nuestra profesionalidad y la seriedad de nuestro puesto, renunciamos a empleos, que nos hacen re\u00edr m\u00e1s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 quieres demostrar? \u00bfDe qu\u00e9 tienes miedo? \u00bfA qu\u00e9 estas renunciando?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El coaching es un espacio para pensar y desautomatizar, para cuestionar y entendernos mejor. Te animo a probarlo. 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