{"id":2302,"date":"2022-05-17T11:43:48","date_gmt":"2022-05-17T11:43:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/virginiagallo.com\/?p=2302"},"modified":"2022-05-17T12:54:34","modified_gmt":"2022-05-17T12:54:34","slug":"aceptacion-amargura-o-cambio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/virginiagallo.com\/?p=2302","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfC\u00f3mo afrontas lo que no te gusta en tu vida?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tenemos tres alternativas ante las situaciones de nuestra vida que no nos gustan: <strong>aceptaci\u00f3n, amargura o cambio<\/strong>. La elecci\u00f3n depende de nuestra personalidad y circunstancias.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Aceptaci\u00f3n implica aprender a vivir con la situaci\u00f3n<\/strong>. No necesariamente debe gustarte; pero, si no tienes control sobre la misma, si no puedes cambiarla, puedes aceptarla en tu vida. Muchas personas que conozco optan por aceptar algunos de los retos de su vida de expatriadas. Me encanta escucharlas y entender mejor qu\u00e9 significa la aceptaci\u00f3n para ellas. Creo que viene a ser como dejar de pelearse con las circunstancias.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personalmente, hay dos cosas que soy incapaz de aceptar:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>La renuncia al desarrollo profesional<\/strong>. Cuando era peque\u00f1a, mis padres me preguntaban qu\u00e9 quer\u00eda estudiar, a qu\u00e9 quer\u00eda dedicarme. Nunca me preguntaron por novios, intenciones de boda o maternidad. Aprend\u00ed a valorar mi desarrollo intelectual y profesional y a convertirlos en pilares clave de mi felicidad.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>La dependencia econ\u00f3mica de mi pareja<\/strong>. El sueldo del expatriado est\u00e1 generalmente previsto para cubrir gastos familiares. Incluso hay algunos pa\u00edses que, por ejemplo, pagan una asignaci\u00f3n mensual a los c\u00f3nyuges de los expatriados. A m\u00ed, no generar ingresos me mata y me coloca en una situaci\u00f3n de excesiva vulnerabilidad, si alg\u00fan d\u00eda se tuercen las cosas&#8230;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Descartada la aceptaci\u00f3n, queda la amargura o el cambio.<\/strong> Incluso puede que un poquito de amargura sirva, en ocasiones, como motor para el cambio. Desde mi primera mudanza, me he peleado con las circunstancias (idioma, burocracia, ausencia de contactos&#8230;), para conseguir trabajar, ser independiente y sentirme realizada en el extranjero.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n priorizas tu desarrollo profesional, te cuesta aceptar unas circunstancias que lo limitan y est\u00e1s dispuesta a esforzarte para cambiarlas, <a href=\"https:\/\/calendly.com\/virginiagallo\/15min\">hablemos<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tenemos tres alternativas ante las situaciones de nuestra vida que no nos gustan: aceptaci\u00f3n, amargura o cambio. La elecci\u00f3n depende de nuestra personalidad y circunstancias.\u00a0 Aceptaci\u00f3n implica aprender a vivir con la situaci\u00f3n. No necesariamente debe gustarte; pero, si no tienes control sobre la misma, si no puedes cambiarla, puedes aceptarla en tu vida. 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