{"id":2598,"date":"2023-11-07T11:25:19","date_gmt":"2023-11-07T11:25:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/virginiagallo.com\/?p=2598"},"modified":"2023-11-07T11:25:21","modified_gmt":"2023-11-07T11:25:21","slug":"que-intentas-controlar-cuando-no-controlas-nada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/virginiagallo.com\/?p=2598","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfQu\u00e9 intentas controlar cuando no controlas nada?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Estamos dise\u00f1ados para anticiparnos a peligros y buscar seguridad. En entornos desconocidos, se disparan nuestras alarmas.\u00a0<br><br><strong>Las mudanzas y los cambios trastocan especialmente nuestra vida.<\/strong> Perdemos rutinas y estructura, desconocemos c\u00f3mo se hacen las cosas o a qui\u00e9n acudir, hacemos duelos, volvemos a empezar\u2026 Nos sentimos tremendamente inseguros y fuera de control.<br><br><strong>A veces, forzamos el control en otras \u00e1reas en un desesperado e in\u00fatil esfuerzo por resistirnos a la incertidumbre.\u00a0<\/strong><br><br>Si te acabas de mudar al extranjero, puede que constates una creciente e insaciable obsesi\u00f3n por tu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Casa&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hijos<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagen&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Presupuesto<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Trabajo\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00bfPodr\u00e1 la ansiada perfecci\u00f3n en alguno de esos \u00e1mbitos lograr suplir los vac\u00edos y el miedo? \u00bfOcupar\u00e1 suficientemente tu tiempo y tu cabeza como para conseguir no pensar en nada m\u00e1s y proyectar que todo va bien y has vuelto a la normalidad?&nbsp;<br><br>La sociedad nos invita a controlar. Nos habla de estructura, h\u00e1bitos y fuerza de voluntad.&nbsp;<br><br>Los que ya venimos muy controlados de serie, debemos buscar soluciones alternativas. Bajar la guardia y esperar a que, pasada la tormenta, vislumbremos en la lejan\u00eda la luz del faro.&nbsp;<br><br>Si te acabas de mudar al extranjero, primero, date tiempo. M\u00e1s adelante, si necesitas ayuda en tu reinvenci\u00f3n profesional,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/virginiagallo.us1.list-manage.com\/track\/click?u=7c2bd1c857e7d43ea7d6ebb39&amp;id=898d36aff6&amp;e=547276c266\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">hablemos<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Estamos dise\u00f1ados para anticiparnos a peligros y buscar seguridad. En entornos desconocidos, se disparan nuestras alarmas.\u00a0 Las mudanzas y los cambios trastocan especialmente nuestra vida. Perdemos rutinas y estructura, desconocemos c\u00f3mo se hacen las cosas o a qui\u00e9n acudir, hacemos duelos, volvemos a empezar\u2026 Nos sentimos tremendamente inseguros y fuera de control. 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